Mar 25, 2008

Sex in the Newsroom, Part DUEX

I understand all the articles in women’s magazines about relationships at work not working well, but if you work all the time, when and where else are you going to meet someone worth meeting?

Is it more or less awkward to hook up with someone at work if you’re an intern? Look at it this way, you’re only going to be there for a set amount of time (unless you get offered a job, but for the sake of this post we’re ignoring that option).

I’ve always said that I thought I’d do well with someone who was in my field of work, or at least an artist of some sort. I love technical thinking guys as friends, but in a whole, I think I need an outside the box thinker like myself and engineers and lawyers usually don’t have a reputation for being right-brained if you know what I mean.

This article from askmen.com (a personal favorite) is a run down of dos and don't, pros and cons - the usual, but it has a men's point of view on all things co-worker.



Here are some of my pros and cons.

+/- you have to see that person every day. This goes in both columns.

- if you break up, they're still going to be there reminding you that they're still alive and well.

- as an intern, you might spark some jealousy with higher ups

+ someone to go to lunch with

+ let's be real here, everyone loves secret sex



At the beginning, it's all little knowing smiles and office intrigue. I am not looking forward to the potential nastiness that can come with an inter office break up. But I guess that's a perk of only being an intern - if you're not hired, you have a limited shelf life. Plus, it's kinda fun to keep the office gossip on her toes.

Mar 16, 2008

Beauty Addicts?

Beauty products rarely used to cross my mind.  It wouldn't even land on a top 50 important-items-in-my-life list.  But now that I have a beauty internship, seeing products come in and out, I'd like to share some of my good-deal discoveries.  (Dior lipgloss is fantastic, but not always practical.)

Beauty Products You Never Knew You Needed:

1.  Sunscreen.  Sunscreen. Sunscreen.  Nothing is stressed more in my department.  Everyone should be using some kind of SPF on their face and, ideally, your body.  Every day.  Rain or shine.  The fact is, your clothes aren't adequate protection and although we're invincible 20-somethings, the sun is the number one cause for aged-looking skin.  Not to mention, skin cancer!  And you don't have to slather on a thick, white, greasy beach-day lotion.  SPF comes in a lot of moisturizers and makeup.
Tried and loved:
Clean and Clear Soft Oil-Free Daily Moisturizer, SPF 15.  It's light, oil-free (which is key for me) and has a slight - yet not overpowering- scent of sunscreen to remind you of summer.  Every time my boyfriend kisses my cheek he says I smell like the sun!  Buy it.  
Sugar Tint, tinted moisturizer. - This is a fantastic tinted moisturizer.  It's sheer, yet gives descent coverage and a nice glow.  Plus, it's oil-free and has an SPF of 20.  Love, love, love it.  It's a bit pricey ($28 at Sephora) but it's better than settling for a cheaper, greasy tinted moisturizer or foundation that clogs pores.  Buy it.
Neutrogena Sunblock, Ultra Sheer Body Mist SPF 45 - This has UVA and UVB protection, plus it's a sheer spray-on mist which makes putting on sunscreen convenient. Buy it.

2.  Scalp exfoliate and dry shampoo.  We all know that if you want a clear complexion and healthy skin, exfoliate once a week.  It clears away dead skin cells which can clog pores.  Well isn't your scalp just an extension of your skin?  I never knew the difference a scalp exfoliate can make.  Unclogging your scalp (think of all the product build-up!) in turn reduces oil production.  This can prolong the time you need to shampoo -- another step in healthy hair.  For days that you don't wash your hair, use a dry shampoo.
Tried and loved:
Bain de Terre Sugar & Fig Scalp Massage Scrub - Natural sugars dissolve as you massage your scalp, and the rest is easily washed away with shampoo.  So refreshing.  Buy it.
Oscar Blandi Pronto Dry Shampoo Spray - I've tried other dry shampoos and powders, and this is my favorite.  It soaks up any oil, and also adds some volume and life to dirty hair.  I know it sounds gross, but it's very important to not wash your hair too often -- it disrupts your natural hair oils.  Buy it.

3.  Eyelash curler.  It's just necessary.

4.  Eye brighteners.  This is one of the best things I've discovered.  Besides just using an eyelash curler and a good concealer (which I know is hard to find), white brightening powder and white brightening pencils make a huge difference.  Let's face it -- you're out late.  Maybe one or two or seven too many drinks, stressed about finding a job, staring at a computer screen too much. The result?  Panda eyes.  What you need to do is, first, use concealer not only under your eyes, but also on your eyelid and up to under your eyebrow.  Rub in.  This gives one uniform matte look.  Then use your eyelash curler and a curling mascara to open up the eyes.  Finally, take a white, brightening powder and dab it under your eyes, on your eyelids and up to the eyebrows.  Avoid your eyelashes and eyebrows because, well, it's white powder.  Then -- this is the kicker -- use a pinkish/white brightening eye pencil on the inner corners of your eyes and at a sideways-V shape along the outer corners of your eyes. Blend in. It gives a dramatic result.  Trust me.
Tried and loved:
Benefit eye bright - I've tried other white pencils and this is by far the best.  It's the most essential product in my makeup bag. Another really good use for this is for your lips.  For a naturally-enhanced pout: Use a natural-looking lipliner on your bottom lip (heavier under the middle of your bottom lip) and blend in.  Then take your handy white pencil and put a little where your upper lip dips in.  Blend in. A little gloss in the middle of your bottom lip help too, but I'm sure you already knew that.  Buy it.
Wet n Wild Beauty Benefits - They have a cheap concealer that comes with a white powder for eye brightening.  I think it might not be out until April, and there are tons of other white powders out there, but this is the one I've been using.  Benefit Miss Popularity is pretty good too.  Buy it.

 5.  Lip exfoliant.  When you have dry, flaky chapped lips, you can keep slathering on lip balm but the dead skin is still going to be there -- just a little softer.  Just like you need one for your face and your scalp -- guess what -- your lips are skin too.  I use a pretty expensive one from Jane Iredale but Smashbox has one at Sephora for $18.00.  And I love Smashbox.  But any will do.  Buy it.



Mar 15, 2008

How I landed my internship...

For all of you stressing about finding an internship, I feel you.  Really, I do.  It's an awful anxiety.  Especially in the media industry, you're up against Columbia and Northwestern-trained journalists with glossy clips.  You're up against kids whose parents have serious money and serious connections.  You are just a resume in a pile, right?  Exaggerated exhale.

For all of you not-so-worried, laid-back types who plan on settling for something easy -- you should know that an internship can really be a deciding factor in getting your dream job.  We all need to start building a resume, because most likely that's what's going to get you an interview.  Working for the school paper is good.  A 4.0 is overrated.  Stellar clips are crucial.  But above anything, the media world is built on connections.  CONNECTIONS.  Having a recommendation from an editor looks fantastic, and above all, you need the real-world experience.  Of course it's possible to get a job without one, but I'm guessing that you're going to have to work much harder.  I know that there is no way I could handle an editorial assistant position at a national magazine without having interned at one.  No. Way.  I don't mean to be discouraging, this is just what I'm experiencing.  It's harder to get into the door of a magazine without the proper experience and connections.

There are some of you wanting to go to a daily paper, a broadcast station or the radio.  Frankly, I know nothing about that.  What I can do is explain how I went about getting my internship and hopefully it will help.

1.  Don't be intimidated.  Yes, I've watched The Devil Wears Prada (the inspiration is located in my building) and I'm slightly addicted to The Hills.  I read all of the advice out there that says the competition is fierce and only the top contenders actually get an interview.  On Ed2010, Eds advise "whippersnappers" that there is a "don't speak unless spoken to" rule for interns, making me think that the staff walks around with their nose so far in the air that you're invisible.  Wow, not the case.  These are just people working very hard, eager to get some free help.  Just apply.  It's nothing you can't handle.  

2.  The first thing that I did was go to Ed2010.com.  I was looking for a spring internship in the fall (naturally) and I wanted to make the leap from regional mag to national.  The fact is, when it comes to big-name magazines the place to be is Manhattan.  Unfortunately, internships in the City are posted last-minute.  Postings for the fall were going up in October and November.  So I took all of the contact information for editors looking for fall interns and Emailed them.  All it took was a quick Email saying that I'm a journalism student interested in a spring internship.  Could they give me a deadline for when they'll be looking?  I'd say I got very friendly responses from 90 percent of the editors.  Tip: Always Email the lowest person in the masthead for the department you're interested in.  For instance, for beauty I would Email the beauty department's editorial assistant.  The department director, and especially the editor-in-chief, are the absolute wrong people to contact.

2.  After I got the responses back, I put all of the deadlines on a calendar.  With school work, outside jobs and such, it takes a long time to construct the cover letters and resume.  This is an extremely important aspect of the process -- work hard on these.  The fact of the matter is, you are just a resume in a pile and you have to get their attention.  I've learned that first of all, always enlist help from professors.  Have other people read it before you send it out.  The cover letters that I sent out (tailored to each magazine) had a balance of my experience and what I liked about the magazine that I was applying for.  This is a creative industry -- a boring, stuffy business format isn't appropriate.  Neither is something off-the-wall and obnoxious.  I'd look to the advice Ed2010 gives on how to write one.  I think that editors want to know that you can write, that you have experience and that you  "get" their magazine.  

3.  After I sent out my resumes, I got a very random Email from an editor at a major magazine that I, ironically, didn't apply to.  She was switching over to the magazine I'm currently interning at and she got my name from the previous editorial assistant that I Emailed.  This is a position that wasn't posted anywhere, so if I didn't send out those Emails then I wouldn't have been given the opportunity.  It was a freelance project that was actually paid and it started mid-November.  I responded with my resume and cover letter, and stated that I wasn't available until December because of school.  Even thought this was a winter position (therefore I wouldn't get credit for spring) it would get me in the door.  Take any opportunity.

4.  After a couple days of not hearing back, I started to panic.  Not available until December?  One of your favorite magazines in the world came to you with this paying position.  Skip school.  Go for it.  I Emailed the editor back and said that I could work Mon., Wed., Fri. in November and then full-time in December.  I only had one class on those days that I would skip for the last two weeks and I would quit my regional magazine internship early.  This was worth it.

5.  Five days later.  No response.  I looked at the Email that this editor sent me and it had her cell phone number on it.  Oh, yes.  I went there.  I called her and, thankfully, she didn't answer, so I left a voicemail message.  I basically told her who I was, that I was extremely interested in the position and that I would work my schedule around them.  I said I hoped to meet with her for an interview soon.  I was straight-forward, confident and brief.

6.  Three days later.  No response.  I was still working on other cover letters for the spring, but I couldn't get this out of my head.  I started to lose confidence because I've read advice that bluntly said, "if they want to hire you, they'll contact you."  Well, I didn't settle for that.  I called her cellphone AGAIN, leaving her ANOTHER message explaining why I would be a vital part of their team.  

7.  Three weeks later, I had pretty much given up on that internship.  I half-heartedly sent out other resumes, seriously doubting my chances.  Then, out of no where, I got a phone call from that editor!  She asked me to come down for an interview the next day (for which I skipped all of my classes).  Apparently they had pushed back the project because they were so busy.  At noon the next day I was in the building of my dreams, meeting with the editor I had been stalking.  Surreal?  You bet.  Rewarding?  Absolutely.  I ended up interviewing for about 10 minutes, and then an hour later she called my cell phone and said I got the job. I was very friendly, dressed cute and always remained confident.  Most of the editors are really young and really cool.  

8.  After proving that I was a hard worker, they then offered me the unpaid Spring internship position.

Moral of the story?  Enthusiasm, confidence and persistence are key.  You have to be pro-active.  Absolutely have to.  I brought a portfolio of my clips, none of which were that impressive.  I didn't have any other national experience, and I found out that being at a regional magazine isn't as much preparation as you'd think.  But I have to say, just by sending out those Emails in the beginning, then following up with creative and tailored cover letters and resumes, I was contacted for interviews by many editors, including those at Seventeen and Marie Claire.  It can happen if you make it happen.  

Mar 10, 2008

All About Me

3 words:
Hopeful.  Ambitious.  Stress-ball.

The Good Stuff:
I'm the newest member of the JayTooKru, and I add the national magazine scene to the mix.  I'm currently an unpaid intern at a magazine in the heart of NYC.  I'm not going to name specifics, but I'll just say that it's been one of my favorites since high school.  After two months, I still have to pinch myself.  It's not exactly the department that I saw myself working in (beauty) but I'm really enjoying it.  (The face that I'm set with shampoo, face wash and makeup for at least a year makes up for the lack of paycheck...sort of.)  I've heard that beauty articles tend to be the most read (and therefore the highest paying) so I'm grateful for the experience.  More than anything, the connections that I'm making at this internship are invaluable.  I spent a year at a regional magazine, which is nothing like the hectic and fast-paced national scene.  Hopefully my experiences will help future magazine interns know what to expect.

As for my future, I see myself as having a few years of stressful, long hours at a national magazine, and then quitting to have children and freelance.  Hopefully I'll find the time to travel and write books.  I don't see myself as living in the City forever (right now I'm in Brooklyn) but for now it works.  By nature I tend to be a little high-strung and a bit of a work-a-holic, but only when provoked.  I'd rather lead a low-key, quiet life -- just my family, friends and word processor.  Maybe I could live a glamorous life in the City That Never Sleeps, but I wouldn't be content.  At the end of the day, I just want to be a writer.  But magazines are fun and I'd love to spend a few years making connections in the industry.  I'll be graduating in May so we'll see where it takes me...

My Writing
I always saw myself as traveling for investigative pieces, telling people's untold stories and well, changing the world.  I'll still keep that dream alive.

I'm enamored with the elements of language and writing. Story structure, word choice and character development are crucial.  Conventionality bores me.  More than anything I look at writing as art; Writers can delicately compose a story by making every word, every punctuation, deliberate.

Writing is also a powerful tool for social, political and personal change.  Reading permeates your thoughts, becoming a part of your identity in a way that television scenes can't.  So much of what I recall on a day-to-say basis are from things I've read.  That's what I hope to accomplish one day.

Mar 7, 2008

Job Hunting, With a Stick.

That is how I feel. Like I'm on some prehistoric quest for sustenance, alongside about a million other people with similar sticks, a bunch with knifes, a couple with arrows, and maybe one or two with guns. All I can do is hope that my little sharpened stick will get lucky and pierce some sort of life line.

I need an edge. I came across a few sites catering to the stick wielding, and found them pretty helpful.
  • Brazen Careerist has really helpful features. Coachology is my fave
  • Collegegrad.com has a gigantic job database, and markets itself on being the "#1 entry level job site." They have career resources also, the basics -> resume, cover letter, interview, etc.
  • Vault is a great resource, and it's free through certain schools, so New Paltz take advantage! (goto career resources and click "vault" in the right hand column. The school password is "hawks".)They have company profiles, interview and resume help, and the Vault Online Career Library. The library is a database of Vault career and field guides can download for free. I bought one for 20$ a few days before I saw this. Sooo obnoxious.
I'm not sure about the rest of you, but I was completely unaware of the immense work and concentration that goes into each resume, cover letter, follow-up, interview, and thank you note. I envisioned mass emails, wielding my perfect resume, going out to periodicals across the country. The next day, an inbox bursting. I hope these sites offer a little help.


happy hunting,
Lynn

p.s. Job hunting is stressful and can be depressing - I have a bag of Dove chocolates (the ones with little inspirations written inside the foil) I reward myself with after each resume I send out. Love yourself a little. <3